E59: Stop Managing Anxiety—It’s Time To Rewire It for Good
Ready to Step Out Of Chaos Into Serenity so you can thrive beyond anxiety and excel in your industry without sacrificing your well being? Then check out Serenity: and exclusive 1:1 online immersive experience here https://www.megan-nolan.com/serenity
Sick of being in an endless cycle of anxiety, overthinking, and exhaustion? You’re not alone! Most anxiety advice focuses on coping—deep breaths, affirmations, and mindset shifts—but these only scratch the surface. The real issue? Your nervous system is stuck in dysregulation and you're in anxiety overdrive.
In this episode, we’re diving into:
✔️ Why anxiety isn’t just in your mind—it’s a full-body stress response
✔️ The hidden ways nervous system dysregulation keeps you trapped in overwhelm
✔️ How to shift from being the Worn Out Woman in survival mode to being the Serene Queen where calm, confidence, and clarity come naturally
✔️ A simple but powerful Energy Reboot Power Pause to instantly clear anxious energy and reset your system
If you're ready to stop "managing" anxiety and start rewiring it for good, this episode is for you!
Ready to Step Out Of Chaos Into Serenity so you can thrive beyond anxiety and excel in your industry without sacrificing your well being?
Then check out Serenity: and exclusive 1:1 online immersive experience here https://www.megan-nolan.com/serenity
Want to watch the Energy Reboot Power Pause video? You can here: https://youtu.be/keTjXihyxAQ
Please find the show notes below. Since it is a transcription there may be spelling errors and/or weird grammar. Ignore that and enjoy!
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It's time to stop managing anxiety and
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rewire it for good. Welcome
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back to another episode of the Movement,
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Mind and Meaning podcast. I'm your host,
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Megan Nolan. Today we're going to be
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talking about why so many of the
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tools and tips and techniques that we
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hear out there that you might be doing
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yourself might actually be.
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Contributing to anxiety, OverDrive,
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what that even is, how to go from being
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the worn out woman to being the serene
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queen and so much more.
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So before we dive into all of that,
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I will let you know that I
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have just announced the opening of
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my brand new experience called
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Serenity. Helping you to
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take control of your life and health and
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transform anxiety to peace
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for good using a holistic,
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all inclusive method to support your
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mind, body and spirit to make this
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transformation one that actually sticks
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so you can come back to yourself and
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support yourself on every level of your
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being without having to overhaul
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everything or do long, complicated
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routines that don't fit into your
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incredibly beautiful and. Busy
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schedule that actually make a
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difference that you love and look forward
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to and make this a tool set that actually
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becomes the foundation of your life.
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So Serenity is a 30 day immersive
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experience, one-on-one support,
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customized and designed for you. I
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won't take any more time diving into all
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the details because they are all waiting
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for you on the enrollment page which is
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included in the description and in the
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show notes. So if what we share today
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and what you've learned about me from
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past episodes has really been resonating
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with you, and you've been looking for a
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holistic solution to
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overcoming high functioning
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anxiety, then serenity
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might be exactly what you've been
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thinking and hoping and praying and
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manifesting for. OK, so make sure to
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check that out. Spots are limited. I am
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opening this up for the first time ever,
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so it's at a very, very special rate.
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And I would love for you to take a look
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at it. And if you have any questions,
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there is a link to book a one-on-one call
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with me totally free to see if it's the
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next best fit for you. So make sure to
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check that out. The link is in the show
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notes for Serenity, so
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let me know if any of
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these sound familiar to you.
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Waking up either in the middle of the
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night or first thing in the morning with
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your heart, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom,
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pounding, your brain racing and flipping
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through so many things that you need to
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get done or haven't get done, or mistakes
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that you've made. And somehow, even
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though it's only 3:00 AM, you already
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feel like you are behind in the day and
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in life. So let me know if that resonates
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with you waking up. To that
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anxiety alarm clock and you think, OK, I
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don't want to start my day this way. I'm
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going to do something for myself. I'm
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going to sit down and maybe you sit down
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to meditate or visualize your goals. And
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instead of that, it turns into
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your brain ping ponging all over the
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place or getting whipped up into
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a spiral of self-doubting,
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self-critical thoughts. OK, let me know
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if that sounds familiar. Or maybe.
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So throughout the day, you just keep
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powering through more than two hours of
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the day of work, powering through the
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day, trying to avoid that anxious feeling
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and just kind of keeping it at Bay by
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doing stuff and avoiding thinking about
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it. And you're really just, you know,
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being powered by too many oat milk lattes
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and a couple almonds that you found in
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the back of the cupboard because you
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didn't have time to make lunch,
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OK?Maybe that resonates with you.
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Maybe it's that you've tried every health
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trend out there. You've done the breath
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work, you've rocking the blue light
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blocker glasses. Probably right now you
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might even be sipping on a, you know,
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mushroom coffee and you took all your
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supplements this morning and and you, you
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know, you do your affirmations and you do
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this and that and the other thing. But it
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hasn't really made a difference for you
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because you still are accompanied by that
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sidekick of anxiety and.
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Maybe it feels like you're trying to do
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all the healthy things and trying to fit
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it all together and piece it all
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together, but yet you're still running
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on fumes. Well, if
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any of those sound familiar to you,
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welcome to the club, my friend. I
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call that anxiety OverDrive
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and. It literally is that. It's kind
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of the the human equivalent to an over
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caffeinated squirrel just running
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around and looping around in circles,
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right?And it feels like you're running as
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fast as you can, but you're just, you
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know, literally running in circles. Brain
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cannot shut it off for the life of you.
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It's constantly questioning you,
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constantly critiquing you, constantly
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leaving you feel like you're never doing
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enough, even though you're doing
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everything you can and more. That
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is anxiety OverDrive. It's mental
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overwhelm, right?It's the constant
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running of the thoughts. It's emotional
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burnout. It's emotional exhaustion of
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like, uh, why am I still dealing
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with this?Why is this still happening?And
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because of all of that?You know, maybe
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you're doing some healthy things here and
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there. Maybe you're doing the yoga and
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the strength training and the working out
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and all that and and getting enough
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sleep, but still feeling completely
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drained and physically exhausted.
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That is anxiety overdrive and
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it happens, right?It happens. And so
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everything that I just mentioned, those
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are, you know, symptoms of that and
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what it really lends to and leads to
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is. Being what I call the worn out
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woman or the worn out human, however you
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identify, right?Maybe it's the worn out
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man being human, whatever. It doesn't
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really matter what the.
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And and if it matters to you, it matters
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to me. But it doesn't. The label doesn't
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matter is what I'm trying to say. And I
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want to honor, you know, however you
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identify and associate like I love and
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support all of that and everyone is
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welcome here and we are very inclusive
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community here. So for me, I mainly
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support really ambitious, passionate,
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purpose-driven women. But of course, you
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know, folks, all folks are welcome here
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and and I really honor that and I it's
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not. Something that is
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exclusive by any means, right?And it's
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it's really that we
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are here to learn and I'm excited and
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honored to support you. And I know that,
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you know, if you've been doing some of
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those things or all of those things and
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trying to manage anxiety,
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but it feels like you're putting whipped
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cream on a pile of poop, right?Because
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it's just like, what am I even doing?It
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doesn't even feel like it's scratching
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the surface, right?I feel like I make
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some analogies there. Whipped cream. I
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don't know, lipstick on a pig, one of my
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coaches says. And so the truth
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is, is that those things are
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helpful, but they're incomplete.
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issue, which is what we're gonna explore
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talking about today, then being the worn
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out human or magical
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sparkly being, however you identify all
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of us are welcome here, is that that's
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gonna continue to be our reality. And
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that's was my reality for.
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A really long time. And as somebody
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who is educated and
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experienced as a personal trainer,
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as a yoga instructor, let me tell
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you when I say that that was some
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pretty flammable
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fuel for my brain
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when I couldn't, I couldn't get to the
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bottom of it and I couldn't quote UN
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quote solve the issue, resolve the issue.
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gamut of like making me feel like a
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fraud, totally judging myself,
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totally shaming myself, which of
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course contributed to that internal
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turmoil. It really fed the
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fire of my dysregulation and my
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constant spiraling thoughts,
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and also really made me feel
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sad because I was so critical of
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myself. I did. I felt like I
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was failing, right?And so
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when we, when we experience this, it's
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first and foremost so important for us to
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cultivate compassion and cultivate
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self-awareness. And that's really the
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bulk of of what we do here on this
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podcast and what I do in my work and what
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what I'll support you with inside
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Serenity is, is learning to
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recognize these patterns and these
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tendencies and these habits and these.
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Identities and these stories that we
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create for ourselves in the mind out
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of survival, right. So we've talked about
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that, how the the core function of the
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mind is survival and it
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that's what it's really focused on and is
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keeping itself alive and really
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adapting to patterns, adapting to things
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in the world, adapting to stressors and
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how it continues to perpetrate these
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patterns that it has created. And so
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we're going to explore that in a minute.
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But The thing is, is that. Where this
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is originating from, like when we talk
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about, OK, well, what is, what is
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anxiety?Why does it keep showing up for
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me?What is this, right?It's a chronic
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state of nervous system dysregulation.
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It's a response to stress, right?When
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your body perceives a stress, whether
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it's in in yourself, right?
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Whether it's, you know.
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It's feeling overwhelmed with all the
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work that you have to do, or it's an
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external stress. It's looking at the
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state of the world and feeling, you know,
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super overwhelmed and helpless
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and frustrated. It's responding. Your
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body, your nervous system is responding
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to those stressors, right?Rather
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internal, external, perceived or or
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real or wow, I'm really having
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some some word issues today. Whether they
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are real or perceived in our mind,
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right?And and not they're either. Wow,
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either real or imagined. There we go.
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Real or imagined. Hello. I was like, what
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is the opposite of real?
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Real or imagined?Your
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your body is responding to those
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stressors, OK?And it's kicking it into a
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very heightened stress response. And
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so when it comes to anxiety, that's more
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of a a fight or a flight response. So
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it's a very reactive state inside your
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body. And some people respond this
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way, right?Some people are very
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hypervigilantly wired and they respond
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to these stressors in an anxious way.
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you'll notice that some people are stay
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calm under pressure. And that's that's
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amazing. We're all different, right. And
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so it's just important to just witness
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that this is. Your body's imprinted
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pattern, and it doesn't mean it's fixed
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and it doesn't mean it's the way it's
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going to be forever. No, that's the cool
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thing about your nervous system is that
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we're able to shift it. We're able to
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help it and support it and regulate it
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and begin to shift at these deep levels
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so that this doesn't become
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the way that it's always just going to
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be. Although it may feel like that right
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now, and that's certainly what it felt
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like for me. So when our stress response
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is overactive. Then we get kicked up
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into the state of dysregulation. Our
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brain is perceiving this threat. We get
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active in the amygdala, which is the
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survival center in the brain, and it
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begins to continually look for threats,
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right?And when we're in this heightened
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state, everything adds to the fire,
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everything, right?And especially in our
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current climate, especially here in the
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US, there's a lot of stressful things
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happening around the world. There's a lot
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of stressful things happening, and so
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that's why it's really important. To look
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at what you're consuming throughout the
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day when it comes to your social media,
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it's important to continually do the
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things we're going to be talking about
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here so that you're tending to yourself.
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high alert response, it is in
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survival mode, right?And we know you've
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probably heard me say that we.
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cortisol levels pumping through our
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cortisol levels are high. It's pumping
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through our system. Adrenaline levels are
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high. That's the opposite to
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that centered state, that creative
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energy, the leadership energy grounded,
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regulated in the energy of being your
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serene queen self, right?
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You're centered. You are anchored. You
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are in your power. You are tapped into
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flow. You are in that sense of
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activation and potentiality and
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connectivity. That's your serene queen
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vibe, right?Very opposite to the worn
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out woman vibe. So when we're in that
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state, the creative state, then then we
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have serotonin and
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endorphin levels and dopamine levels and
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that's the creative chemicals. So that's
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where we, you know, in a regulated state.
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aligned to how you want to feel and how
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you want to show up. So how do we get
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there?How do we live there, Megan?Like,
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how do we stop just managing and banding
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the symptoms and get to that state?Well,
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that's what we're going to talk about
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because what we're really wanting to do
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is recognize when we're
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in that state of that tight.
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on fumes, powering through the day,
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dealing with high functioning anxiety and
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just trying to avoid it by doing all the
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overworking, overdoing, overthinking. How
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do we get to the root of the issue
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so that we can experience lasting
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peace, lasting peace, lasting,
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connected awareness, grounded state that
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that is your your true state, right?And
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when you're. Your nervous system is in
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that state of regulation. When we return
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it to its natural state,
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that's when you feel so alive,
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so vibrant, so fulfilled, right?
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You're feeling like yourself again. And
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that's a huge thing that I hear from my
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clients and my community members is that
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I just wanna feel like myself again. And
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then in our work, we get to that place,
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right?It feels like you have
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agency, you have control
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over. What's happening inside of you,
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right?We cannot control what's happening
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in the world outside of us. We can
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control how much we consume. We can
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control what we're doing to take care and
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tend to our nervous system, how we engage
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in, you know, pretty radical acts of
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rebellion, right?Like taking breaks,
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rest, tending to your nervous system,
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doing more than just having a bubble
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bath, like doing the work that really is
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impactful at the deepest level. How do we
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get to that?Right. How do we shift the
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state of being in a worn out woman state
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in that survival pattern that just
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feeds on itself?Because when we're active
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in the survival state, we're we're just
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seeing more potential threats, right?And
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they may be actual threats or they may be
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perceived threats as problems or
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frustrations or, you know, things that
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are upsetting you. And so your brain
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is hyper-focused on that. So
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what can we do to go
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deeper?What can we do to really
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support you at the deepest level
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of your nervous system?Well, that is
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where the flow framework comes in.
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That is where the flow framework comes
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in, which we go fully into
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inside Serenity, creating your own
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customized flow patterns and
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rituals so that you can activate and live
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this. But I want to give you some tools
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to work with initially because it's
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really important. So flow
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is an acronym. First, we have the
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foundation. And the foundation of
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everything is your
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identity. Who you see yourself
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as, how you're showing up in the world.
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And that is based inside your nervous
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system, right?The beliefs, the
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habits, the stories that you're telling
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yourself are all part of that
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beautiful aspect
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of your mind-body connection. And so
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what's really important here is that we
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begin to look at your
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unique patterns and the ways
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that you respond to stress.
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And so if you are someone, you know, like
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many of the people here in this
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community, woman over 40, dealing with
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high functioning anxiety, you're very
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high achieving, high, highly
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driven, highly passionate, very
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ambitious. Well, that's a
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pattern. That's a protective pattern.
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And so it's really important that we
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begin to witness these patterns, right?
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They're adaptive patterns that you
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learned as a wee little one and begin to
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look at the ways that they
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are serving you, but also might
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actually be triggering more stress
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and therefore contributing to higher
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levels of anxiety. So how can we begin to
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get to the root of this, the foundation
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of this?This is really important is we
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begin to look at your unique
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patterns and just how can you do that
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now?OK, so let's let's land this, let's
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ground this. How can you begin to witness
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that?Well, I want you to think back on
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some times, maybe a stressful time in a
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work period, right?Maybe you know you're
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you're involved in a big project at work,
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right?And for entrepreneurs that might be
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a launch or a sales season.
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Look at what you did to navigate
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through that. Did you push yourself for
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long hours?Did you set really high
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standards and have a hard time delegating
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things to other people?This is again, we
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want to look through the lens of the
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heart with compassionate curiosity. How
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can you begin to recognize
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those patterns in yourself so that we can
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begin to become aware of
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what your default mode is?OK,
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And awareness of that, we can begin to
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create a different foundation. And we're
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not saying that you're going to totally
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just throw all that out. It's it's so
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important. These tools and these
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qualities are so, so important.
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But that typically when we default to
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that pattern, when we're in a stress
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state, we tend to use them in a
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dysregulated state or in that fight or
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flight response. So if you were
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to use those, that ambitiousness, that
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attention to detail, that very
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passionate and goal-driven
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qualities of yourself in a
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regulated, intentional way, they
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become so incredibly powerful cause
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you're using them from a creative space
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in the mind. So how can we create a
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foundation for that?Looking at what your
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qualities already are so you're not
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changing yourself. No, you're an amazing,
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incredible being that has all of these
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beautiful qualities and characteristics.
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It's creating a foundation of support for
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your nervous system by looking at these
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patterns. OK, so it's very important that
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we bring these patterns into your levels
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of awareness, because until we make the
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conscious, or sorry, until we make the
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unconscious conscious, it will rule your
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life and you will call it destiny. So
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that's a quote from Carl Jung. OK,
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so we're bringing these subconscious,
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unconscious patterns to your levels of
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awareness so that you can witness them.
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if we're active in the survival state of
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the brain, the mind chatter, the chatter
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channel will become probably a little
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bit more self-doubt,
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perfectionism, critical imposter
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syndrome, all of those things that tend
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to go along with. That anxious
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state in our in our body. OK, so
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this is a nervous system reset. So this
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is a foundational awareness of your
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nervous system patterns, of your
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subconscious patterns so that we can
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begin to recognize them, honor
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them and maybe play with them a little
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bit, really creating this solid
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foundation of a regulated nervous system.
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a regulated state in the nervous system,
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then we can begin to not only
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recognize these patterns, but we will
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learn how to rewire them. OK, learning
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how to rewire them. So first you
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cultivated an awareness of it. So now
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that you start to look and you see your
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patterns, let's learn to rewire
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these patterns so that when we're
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experiencing stress. It doesn't
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accelerate to that anxious response.
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When we are experiencing, you know, a
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moment when we're getting pushed, when
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we're getting challenged, that might be
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stressful for us and we might kick back
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into that hyper-achiever critical
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pattern or whatever it is. How can we
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begin to shift and rewire
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that pattern?So let's learn to rewire
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the mind, and
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this is really awareness in action.
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Right. We know that when we're under
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stress, the survival mechanism is kicked
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in. The voice in our head is typically
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not very encouraging and loving.
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No, not not really.
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Because we're in fear, right?We're in
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fear. So how can we learn to catch
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that and begin to recognize your
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patterns, right?Recognize how you
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are beginning to shift your foundation,
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right?We talked about that in F. So let's
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learn to catch those patterns so they no
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longer control you. So what we want to do
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here is give that
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pattern that you recognize in yourself.
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Maybe it's Harry the hectic hyper
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achiever. That's mine, right?Or
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maybe it's the sad,
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the snide, cynical,
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snakey response, right?It's that. Let's
560
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let's give it some. Playfulness, right?
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Give it a quality, give it a name
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so that when that shows up, when that
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pattern shows up, that is
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really been pretty foundational up until
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this point. But we're shifting that,
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right?These are subconscious patterns
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that you learned as a child that you're
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now beginning to bring awareness to.
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We're learning how to rewire them. So
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when you can recognize that you're in
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that pattern or that you are
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feeling. The result of that stress
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response, you're feeling the anxiety in
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your body. Label it,
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label it. Uh, I'm feeling
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anxious. And we wanna make sure
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to bring that level of awareness so that
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we're not saying I am anxious. I'm
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anxious. I'm feeling anxious cause you
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are not anxiety, you're experiencing
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anxiety. That's very important
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distinction in starting to change your
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relationship with this experience is
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to. Step away from it and take space
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from it. And that's something we'll dive
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deep into inside serenity.
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So labeling the anxiety as
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such. And then when you're noticing that
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those patterns show up in yourself, then
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that's when we begin to play with some of
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the tools. What we're doing here is
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feeling the feels, right?You're noticing
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that experience, and as soon as that
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happens, we take a power
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pause. So you're learning to rewire your
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mind. So you're catching yourself in that
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pattern. What do we do next?What do we do
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next?When I feel the anxiety, when I
599
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notice myself being critical or whatever
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it is, we're learning to rewire your
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mind. How?Well, here's where we
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optimize your energy by taking a power
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pause. So you're feeling the feels, and
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now we get to O, optimize your energy. So
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here is where we are using
606
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these intentional pauses, these little
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mindful moments. To be
608
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able to break and interrupt the pattern,
609
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right. So what we're doing here is when
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we feel the feels, when we get that that
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cue from your body, then we
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pause and we are
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doing something to shift your
614
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inner state. So we are doing something
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to reboot your energy that actually
616
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fuels you by helping you to diffuse
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some of that anxious energy as
618
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well as. Being able to regulate your
619
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nervous system so that you're really
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rewiring your mind. You're creating this
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new foundation for yourself. You're
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resetting the nervous system in the
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moment. In the moment. OK, we're going to
624
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get to a power pause in a minute. I'm
625
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going to show you how to do that, but I
626
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want to go through W first. So we
627
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are creating this foundational nervous
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system reset. You're learning to rewire
629
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your mind. Now you're optimizing your
630
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energy by taking power pauses. That is
631
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literally just one tool. There are so
632
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many other aspects to this that can be
633
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really supportive. And I don't want to
634
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overwhelm you, but of course that's what
635
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we're going to be diving into,
636
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customizing a plan for you inside
637
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Serenity. So make sure to check that out
638
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because it really is. Inclusive of
639
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movement, right?You know that movement is
640
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mind medicine. Movement is body medicine.
641
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It's all about the state of mind, the
642
00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:40,080
state of being, right?It's about the
643
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meanings that we're making about this. So
644
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there are many other components to this,
645
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but it's really about optimizing your
646
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energy and your lifestyle,
647
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OK?Because as impactful
648
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as a power pause is literally in 2
649
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minutes to be able to shift your inner
650
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state, it's about what we do
651
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consistently to create this
652
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deep and lasting shift and. It
653
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it doesn't mean that we're overhauling
654
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everything and it has to be really
655
00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:08,240
overwhelming. No, it's actually very
656
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simple. It's very simple. And of course
657
00:26:10,560 --> 00:26:12,160
there's layers, right?There's layers to
658
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what you are available for and what works
659
00:26:14,160 --> 00:26:16,560
for you. But it's really about feeling
660
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the feels, right?Notice when it's
661
00:26:18,240 --> 00:26:20,440
happening and then take a power pause.
662
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I'll show you how to do that in a second.
663
00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:26,160
But it's also doing that in the moment
664
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when you experience it. And also doing it
665
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throughout the day so that you're
666
00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:32,240
dripping that sense of steadiness and
667
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calm and awareness throughout your day.
668
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You're weaving it in so that we stay in a
669
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more regulated state. You respond to
670
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challenges, right?That's what regulation
671
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is, is it being able to rise to the
672
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challenge without getting completely
673
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depleted and exhausted and being able
674
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to come back to that steady state of
675
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coherence within yourself, right?That
676
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that even steady rhythm
677
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coherence within yourself. But also
678
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coherence with your vision, coherence
679
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with your goals so that you're in that
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vibrational state. Because your vibe,
681
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your vibe of your vision, which is so
682
00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:06,920
important of how you truly want to feel
683
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and how you truly want to show up, that
684
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is a regulated state. And that's
685
00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:13,920
where all our joyful, uplifting,
686
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effervescent, you know, expansive
687
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emotions live are. They live inside
688
00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:21,760
that regulation. OK, so that's why it's
689
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the foundation.
690
00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:26,720
Regulation is the foundation. Oh.
691
00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:29,400
Oh, I love rhymes, and I love when I'm
692
00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:31,840
clever like that. Good job, Brain. All
693
00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:33,600
right, so we have the foundation. We have
694
00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:35,680
learning to rewire our mind, and we have
695
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optimize your energy. And
696
00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:40,160
then finally,
697
00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:44,400
the elusive work-life
698
00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:47,520
integration. You thought I was going to
699
00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:49,280
say balance, didn't you?Nope, I tricked
700
00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:51,640
you. Work-life integration for
701
00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:52,800
sustainable success.
702
00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:56,680
Because those pieces, especially if
703
00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:58,400
you're very passionate, ambitious and
704
00:27:58,560 --> 00:28:00,640
sometimes entrepreneur, not necessarily,
705
00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:02,480
but a leader, a visionary, whatever you
706
00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:05,120
identify as, it's an integration, right?
707
00:28:05,120 --> 00:28:07,760
It's it's very, very rare that we have
708
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this, you know, completely isolated life
709
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experience and that work and life don't
710
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intermingle. It's an integration of these
711
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different components and aspects of you
712
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for sustainability. It's for
713
00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:21,120
sustainability, right?So that you're able
714
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to fully embody this
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energy, this essence, this
716
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anchoredness, this ability to
717
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tend to your emotions,
718
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being able to release these emotional
719
00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:37,600
congestions when they happen. Observe the
720
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stressors, observe the triggers, observe
721
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the activations, and see them as
722
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opportunities. To really come back
723
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to yourself, to really practice what you
724
00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:49,200
preach, what you teach, what you know,
725
00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:51,920
and really anchor it in so that you can
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navigate stress without
727
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spiraling into anxiety or
728
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spiraling down into sadness.
729
00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:05,040
It's really what it comes back to, is so
730
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that you can show up powerfully in your
731
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life, show up powerfully in your
732
00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:10,560
relationships, Learn how to set
733
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boundaries. Learn how to.
734
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Really do this in a way that's
735
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sustainable so that we're not
736
00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:19,200
having to get to the point where you're
737
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flat out and you're exhausted or burnt
738
00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:22,640
out, right?I got totally burnt out. It
739
00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:24,800
was not a fun state so that
740
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you can be in that flow state, be
741
00:29:28,680 --> 00:29:31,320
in that flow, easeful energy where life
742
00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:33,040
feels effortless, where life feels
743
00:29:33,040 --> 00:29:35,120
aligned, where life feels expansive,
744
00:29:35,720 --> 00:29:38,240
right?So that is the flow framework. And
745
00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:40,320
so I really hope that that was insightful
746
00:29:40,320 --> 00:29:42,880
for you. So when you feel the feels, when
747
00:29:42,880 --> 00:29:44,320
you feel the feels of that
748
00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:47,320
tightening or the worry or the
749
00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:49,440
overwhelm or the racing thoughts of
750
00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:52,400
anxiety, what can you do?What can
751
00:29:52,400 --> 00:29:55,240
you do to optimize your energy and your
752
00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:56,640
lifestyle?Well, you can take a power
753
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pause. OK, so we are
754
00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:02,240
going to do an energy reboot.
755
00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:03,920
We're going to do something that you can
756
00:30:03,920 --> 00:30:06,720
do to clear anxious energy and reclaim
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your calm. Fast. It's so
758
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powerful an it's one of those things
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that's actually retty fun and I
760
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call it shake it like a snow globe. OK, O
761
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remember that when you were little, or
762
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maybe you still have them. I mean, adults
763
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can have snow globes too. The little snow
764
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globes that you got, you know, maybe
765
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somebody that you loved collected them or
766
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you collect them. So the snow globe where
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there's something inside this globe and
768
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you shake it and all the little
769
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snow or sparkles or, you know, sand or
770
00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:36,120
whatever is inside there, you shake it
771
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and it gets all over everywhere and then
772
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it settles.
773
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Well, that's what this is. That's what
774
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this is. This is taking a a shaky break.
775
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So shaking is actually a signal to the
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nervous system that the stressor has
777
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ended. It's a really great way to get
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rid of some of that tightly
779
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wound intensity that
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can that can happen when we're
781
00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:01,440
experiencing anxiety. And it's just fun,
782
00:31:01,760 --> 00:31:04,400
right?Fun and play are very
783
00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:07,680
understated as far as nervous system
784
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regulation tools, as far as coming
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back into the vibe of your vision, as far
786
00:31:13,040 --> 00:31:16,000
as. Just bringing some lightness, some
787
00:31:16,080 --> 00:31:19,040
joy, some levity into our life. Because,
788
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you know, as adults we have this really
789
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silly notion that plays for
790
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kids. Why would I do that?Nonsense from
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the ego mind to keep us in that tight,
792
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contractive, stressed emotion, because
793
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that is where we're safe. That's where
794
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it's familiar. But what we get to do in
795
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this is diffuse some of that energy and
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reboot it, OK?So
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this is something that you can do
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anywhere, and so do it to the level that
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you're comfortable with. So you'll notice
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that I'm standing. You can obviously do
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this sitting. So I'm just gonna start by
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bouncing my body gently. OK, so if you
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are listening to the podcast, make sure
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to come over to the YouTube channel and
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you can watch the video on YouTube. Or if
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you stumbled upon this, you can listen to
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the whole episode about. Really
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being able to not just manage our
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anxiety, but get to the root of it. So
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keep going. Keep shaking. So now shake
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your body like you're Now we can begin to
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shake our hands like you're washed them
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and you're drying them off. And now shake
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it like a snow globe. OK, so shake it
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like a snow globe. That means start to
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shake your whole body all over the place
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to whatever degree feels good to you. OK,
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so we're going to shake, shake, shake,
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shake, shake, shake, shake. Breathe in
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and then exhale. Press your feet down.
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Bring your hands down. OK, do it again.
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Shake it like a snow globe. Shake it like
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a snow globe. OK?You can even say that to
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yourself, cuz it's kind of funny. All I
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can think of is that Outkast song, right?
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Shake it like a Polaroid picture. Shake,
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shake, shake, shake, shake, shake. Ready?
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Breathe in. And then
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close your eyes and let everything
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settle. It's
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like magic every time. One more time.
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Shake it, shake, shake, shake, shake,
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shake. Good. So belly pulls in, rise up,
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stand up nice and tall or sit up nice and
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tall and then shake, shake your face.
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Breathe in and then let it out super slow
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and feel yourself grounding,
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settling, anchoring,
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rooting, calming.
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Yes. All right. I would love to
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know how that was for you. 60 seconds or
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so, right?Rebooting your energy, getting
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out of that anxious energy of anxiety,
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and really coming back to a deep state of
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calm and presence within yourself. So
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powerful. That's what power pauses are
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all about. They do help you to optimize
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your energy and your lifestyle. And
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they're super effective, OK, super
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effective. And they are really a core in
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being able to shift your inner state
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quickly as you just experienced.
853
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So that is everything that I wanted to
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share with you today. How can we not just
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manage anxiety and have it be something
856
00:33:56,760 --> 00:33:58,440
that, you know, this is just wanna deal
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with now and this is just how it is now.
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No, no, you're listening to this
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podcast for a reason. You're
860
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here. You want solutions that actually
861
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work. Yes, it's it's possible for
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you, but it. It really takes
863
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coming in and getting to the root of it,
864
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which is your nervous system and your
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stress response and your protective
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patterns and the identity level of how
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you see yourself. And if you just see
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00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:27,080
yourself, I'm just an anxious person. No,
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no, that's a pattern, right?We can
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begin to recognize it. We can begin to
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shift it. We can begin to navigate it.
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When you have the tools for this
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transformation on the level of mind, body
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and spirit, it's completely possible.
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OK, it's completely possible. And it's
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it's a practice just like anything else.
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It's a practice of awareness. It's a
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practice of devotion. It's a practice of
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compassion. It's really an
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incredible way to learn more about
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yourself. And so that's what I wanted to
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share with you today. I wanted to share
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these with you so that you don't just.
884
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You know, put a Band-Aid on it and get a
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little bit of relief here and there and
886
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OK, I don't feel like the worn out woman
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today. I feel like I'm kind of normal
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today. No, I want you to be able to live
889
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from that place of being the serene
890
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queen, being that grounded, activated,
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powerful, anchored,
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steady. Energy within
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yourself, version of you, your favorite
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version of you. That's what that means,
895
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right?And if you don't identify with
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being a queen, no worries. It's just that
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inner serenity. That's what this is all
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about. So thank you so much for
899
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listening, for watching. And if
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everything that I was sharing here or
901
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anything that I shared here resonated
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00:35:40,720 --> 00:35:42,400
with you, make sure to check out Serenity
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because. It really is a
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culmination of all of the work that I've
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been doing myself over these last few
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years, doing professionally of 20 years
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of personal training and teaching yoga
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and really helping to support you as a
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human first, right?That has these needs
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of mind, body and spirit, but also as
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someone who is very ambitious and wants
912
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to do big things in the world and wants
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to keep showing up so fully and radiantly
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and vibrantly in what you do. And so if
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that's a a really calling to your heart,
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then check out Serenity because it's a
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very high touch, very exclusive
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experience. And so as such, there are
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only limited spots available. So if you
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want one, go grab one. If you have
921
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questions about it, make sure to either
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reach out to me via the page or you can
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book a time to have a little tea time. I
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would love that. And so thank you so much
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for being here. Thank you so much for
926
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being willing to learn and really diving
927
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into how to just. How do you stop just
928
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managing anxiety and actually truly shift
929
00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:43,520
it?That's really what this is about, so
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that you can thrive beyond those
931
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experiences and challenges in a really
932
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balanced, holistic, sustainable way. So
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thank you so much for being here and
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until next time, take good care of you
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and I'll see you soon. Bye, bye.